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Jun 15, Self Help DVDs by Brian Tracy, Bob Proctor; Les Brown

Mon, 15 Jun 2009 00:24:48 GMT

The Best Self Help speakers in the world including Jack Canfield, Les Brown, and Brian Tracy recorded live on DVD; Self Help DVDs are a great way to learn

Jun 15, MANAGING YOUR PERSISTENT FEARS, DEPRESSION, AND ANXIETIES

Mon, 15 Jun 2009 00:08:27 GMT

Everybody deals with anxiety and depression, however some people have a hard time in managing it. As a result, here is a brief list of techniques that a person can use to help manage their most persistent fears and every day anxieties.

When facing a current or upcoming task that overwhelms you with a lot of anxiety, the first thing you can do is to divide the task into a series of smaller steps. Completing these smaller tasks one at a time will make the stress more manageable and increases your chances of success.

Sometimes we get stressed out when everything happens all at once. When this happens, a person should take a deep breath and try to find something to do for a few minutes to get their mind off of the problem. A person could get some fresh air, listen to some music, or do an activity that will give them a fresh perspective on things.

A person should visualize a red stop sign in their mind when they encounter a fear provoking thought. When the negative thought comes, a person should think of a red stop sign that serves as a reminder to stop focusing on that thought and to think of something else. A person can then try to think of something positive to replace the negative thought.

Another technique that is very helpful is to have a small notebook of positive statements that makes you feel good. Whenever you come across an affirmation that makes you feel good, write it down in a small notebook that you can carry around with you in your pocket.

Whenever you feel depressed or frustrated, open up your small notebook and read those statements. This will help to manage your negative thinking. Learn to take it one day at a time. Instead of worrying about how you will get through the rest of the week, try to focus on today. Each day can provide us with different opportunities to learn new things and that includes learning how to deal with your problems. You never know when the answers you are looking for will come to your doorstep. We may be ninety-nine percent correct in predicting the future, but all it takes is for that one percent to make a world of difference.

For the rest of the article and additional articles go to Managing Fear

BIOGRAPHY: Stan Popovich is the author of "A Layman's Guide to Managing Fear Using Psychology, Christianity and Non Resistant Methods" - an easy to read book that presents a general overview of techniques that are effective in managing persistent fears and anxieties.

May 24, Tools and Tricks from the Four Hour Work Week by Chapter

Sun, 24 May 2009 01:24:05 GMT

4 WorkWeek Tools and Tricks by Chapter; Websites listed in the Four Hour Workweek

May 17, BestSelf-Help.com where you will find the Best Self Help DVDs, Audio books,..

Sun, 17 May 2009 03:08:21 GMT

Find the Best Self Help DVDs, Audio books, books, links, complete programs, suggestions, and free self help all at BestSelf-Help.com

May 17, Complete Self Help Programs; Science of Getting Rich

Sun, 17 May 2009 02:25:22 GMT

Bob Proctor, Jack Canfield, Michael Beckwith dissect and explain how to act, think, and be wealthy. One of the best self help programs ever!

May 5, Science of Getting Rich Quotes by Wallace Wattles

Tue, 05 May 2009 01:54:04 GMT

Science of Getting Rich quotes from Wallace Wattles classic book: SOGR Quotations

May 3, Learn the Science of Getting Rich as taught by Proctor, Canfield, and Beckwith

Sun, 03 May 2009 02:15:51 GMT

Study each chapter of the Science of Getting Rich like you have never studied it before. Let the "little green book" teach you as it has taught millions around the world to become rich in all areas of your life. Michael Beckwith paints the picture, Bob Proctor instructs and designs the picture, and then Jack Canfield puts it all together!! Download the SGR Program for only $197

Apr 29, Launch of the SGR Program

Wed, 29 Apr 2009 01:33:56 GMT

SGR is back. The material is incredible and now it is affordable as well!! Taught by Bob Proctor, Michael Beckwith, and Jack Canfield the SGRprogram will teach, challenge, and inspire you to new heights.

Apr 20, Recommended Two Tier Affiliate Programs from Best Self-Help

Mon, 20 Apr 2009 03:12:19 GMT

This is where you will find the Best Self-Help Two Tier Affiliate Programs

Apr 19, Re-Launch of the SGR program

Sun, 19 Apr 2009 02:22:27 GMT

I want to invite you to something really special. SGR program affiliate signup A couple of years ago, back in 2007, I made a lot of money from introducing this program to others. It's called the Science of Getting Rich. So boy, was I glad to see Bob Proctor and his team relaunch it! I'm signing up again because I know it will be another success. (I mean, we ARE talking about a powerful product from Bob Proctor, Jack Canfield and Rev. Michael Beckwith that is incredible) And I want to personally invite you and introduce you to wonderful learning and earning program. They have a great two tier affiliate plan. Affiliate Signup The Launch date is April 28th, so hurry to get your head start.

Feb 9, 100 Quotes from The Secret; The Secret Quotes

Mon, 09 Feb 2009 03:03:29 GMT

100 of the best quotes from "The Secret"; Law of Attraction quotes; "What we think about and THANK about" "Life is meant to be abundant in ALL areas... The Secret Quotes

Feb 8, Silva Life System Silva Mind Control System

Sun, 08 Feb 2009 02:58:48 GMT

Learn about the Silva Life System and all of the Silva Mind Products

Jan 4, Self Help Quotes from Brian Tracy, Bob Proctor, and many more

Sun, 04 Jan 2009 22:23:09 GMT

Hundreds of Self Help Quotes from Jack Canfield, Timothy Ferriss, Les Brown, Bob Proctor, Brian Tracy and many more from BestSelf-Help.com

Jan 1, Step by Step on How to Get Started on Squidoo

Thu, 01 Jan 2009 15:23:03 GMT

The basics of how to get started on Squidoo

Dec 27, Free Self Help Gifts from BestSelf-Help.com: Free downloads

Sat, 27 Dec 2008 23:18:56 GMT

Downloadable Free Self Help Gifts from Bob Proctor, Jack Canfield, Brian Tracy, as an MP3, PDF, download, and many great Self-Help Quotes

Dec 27, Beginners Marketing Class

Sat, 27 Dec 2008 23:18:20 GMT

Learn basic and advanced techninques on how to Market your Business at Beginners Marketing Class

Dec 22, Self Help Links, Suggested Self Help affiliate programs, Forums

Mon, 22 Dec 2008 00:57:16 GMT

Links to Web 2.0 resources, Affiliate programs, Forums, self help blogs, and several links to Self Help websites

Dec 21, Needed to change date to Jan 31st for $50 a day

Sun, 21 Dec 2008 03:29:58 GMT

Zero time to work on Squidoo since Thanksgiving. Here and there but nothing consistent so I am changing the date to Jan 31st. I will still be very busy but it will give me time to consistently be working on the right activities to make my Squidoo income.

Dec 14, Update: Doing things differently

Sun, 14 Dec 2008 20:41:00 GMT

Asking for help at Beginners Marketing Class on Pepperjam.

Sold 3 books through the Amazon module!! I thought the Amazon module wasn't working (just kidding it just didn't seem like it).

Signed up for Propeller to get more traffic and TwitAd to get more money (monetize your Twitter account we'll see...)

Dec 13, Update on $50 a day with Squidoo

Sat, 13 Dec 2008 04:54:55 GMT

Just saw $7 in my Pepperjam account not sure how or why because it has confused me -- time to learn!!

Dec 7, Jose Silva Interview, his thoughts and methods

Sun, 07 Dec 2008 17:07:04 GMT

Interview with the former world renowned mind expert Jose Silva Interview

Dec 7, Save Big on Brian Tracy Products

Sun, 07 Dec 2008 00:35:17 GMT

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Dec 5, Steps I take in creating a New Lens for Squidoo

Fri, 05 Dec 2008 04:26:55 GMT

Steps I take in creating a new lens and getting it published 1. Write down lens ideas as they come to me. If after a couple of days it still seems like a good idea I go for it and make the lens. 2. Try to get the best title as possible for my url -- descriptive but not too long. 3. Add the basic modules and try to always add either a duel, voting module, or plexo voting to help get the visitor engaged. 4. Make each lens a top resource for that topic with a high quality link list. This sometimes will take some research to find the best websites and/or blogs on the topic. I only make lenses with topics I am interested in so this usually does not take too long. 5. Check titles and subtitles for keywords. Add some additional tags. 6. After editing and reordering the modules I publish after my first run. I know most lensmasters don't but I figure the sooner the better on letting the search engines find it. 7. A day later, review, add, edit, re-organize, and look at it again to make sure it all makes sense. If I were visiting this lens would the content be helpful? Does it have a logical flow? Most of the time I do this a couple of days in a row. Mark Nehs on Squidoo

Dec 4, Some Excerpts from Steve Pavlina's new Book

Thu, 04 Dec 2008 01:22:42 GMT

Personal Development for Smart People by Steve Pavlina "When you disconnect from your core self, you experience fear. When you refuse to face your fear, you disconnect even more. Fear isn't something to be avoided. It's the arrow pointing back to your true self. A good rule of thumb to follow is this: whatever you fear, you must eventually face." from Chapter 6 Courage "For behavior to be in intelligent, each part of this process must be aligned with truth, love, and power." from Chapter 7 Intelligence "Does this relationship have a heart? Then consciously decide which ones you want to maintain, which you want to deepen, and which you want to break off. Don't settle for a life filled with shallow, empty interaction." Chapter 12 Relationships Personal Development for Smart People by Steve Pavlina

Dec 3, Law of Attraction by Michael Losier on Sale Now

Wed, 03 Dec 2008 03:57:23 GMT

This book shows readers how to harness the power of positive thinking to get more of what they want and less of what they don't out of life. They'll learn how the Law of Attraction is responsible for attracting people, jobs, situations, and relationships - both good and bad. And by following its three-step formula, tips, tools, and exercises, readers will be able to make the Law of Attraction part of their daily life - improving relationships, increasing wealth, and discovering their true desires. Many consider Michael Losier to be THE best Law of Attraction teacher Law of Attraction by Michael Losier

Dec 2, Your Best Life Now by Joel Osteen

Tue, 02 Dec 2008 03:12:33 GMT

Do you often dream of living a more rewarding life? Do you aspire to a better job, a stronger marriage, a happier home? Do you wish for more gratifying relationships with your family and friends? Perhaps you simply want to accomplish more and leave a lasting legacy for future generations. If you are like most people, you have written these goals and dreams on a list that's titled "Tomorrow's To Do." You can't pursue what's truly important to you because your day is crowded by the demands of mundane routines and other people's priorities. How do you break out and experience the full potential that God intended you to have? The answer lies in a simple yet profound process to change the way you think about your life and help you accomplish what's truly important. In this straightforward guide, Joel Osteen gives you a way to improve your life for good and help you experience victory, joy, and satisfaction every day! Your journey to a brighter future begins with these seven steps: -One: Enlarge your vision -Two: Develop a healthy self-image -Three: Discover the power of your thoughts and words -Four: Let go of the past -Five: Find strength through adversity -Six: Live to give -Seven: Choose to be happy In this remarkable book, Joel Osteen offers you unique insights and encouragement that will help you overcome every obstacle you may encounter. Your life has a divine purpose and destiny. As you put the principles found in these pages to work today you will begin living Your Best Life Now! Normal in-store, physical product price: $25.98 Buy the Audio Download of Your Best Life Now for only $11.75

Dec 1, Looking for more advice on making $50 a day

Mon, 01 Dec 2008 03:16:57 GMT

No sales this week???? Finding some solid advice: How to write copy that will sell Copyblogger Old article but good tips Affiliate Pre sell Found these from this lens If you are in clickbank, he gives some specific tips that have helped him get sales. Best guess for November was probably $3 a day. A long ways to go to get to $50 a day. Send help!!! Looking for a lifeline, or the call a friend option.

Nov 26, Learning Styles - What is your preferred learning style?

Wed, 26 Nov 2008 05:17:32 GMT

Retain information up to 75 better; Learning styles - viisual, auditory, and kinesthetic

Nov 25, Moving forward on my $50 a day with Squidoo Challenge

Tue, 25 Nov 2008 04:21:19 GMT

Decided to start adding a couple of lenses a week and wrote down some ideas for new lenses. Made a new lens. Was trying to learn a new affiliate program but gave up. Thinking of ways to get this lens to be lens of the day and/or in the top 100?

Nov 24, Brain Tracy DVD; Live Seminars put on DVDs; Brian Tracy Video

Mon, 24 Nov 2008 02:26:58 GMT

#1 trainer today on DVD in your home or office teaching you how to double sales, productivity, effectiveness..; Get your Brian Tracy DVD here

Nov 22, My Typical day on Squidoo

Sat, 22 Nov 2008 16:49:36 GMT

I typically am working on Squidoo from 9 pm to 11 pm. Weekends who knows sometimes a couple hours; sometimes 5 or 6 hours. The following is what I am doing on typical day (since I made the decision to go to $50 a day): Twitter pretty much everything I am doing. Do 1 or 2 of the following on Squidoo:
1. Review and freshen an old lens
2. Make a new lens
3. Work on a newer lens

Submitting lenses to SquidDirectory Group on Squidoo, Squidpoint, and Lensroll. Make some posts either asking questions or helping at SquidU the forum for Squidoo Lensmasters, Warrior Forum, Beginners Marketing Class and Squidoo Marketing on Ning. Do 1 of the following:
1. Search for an affiliate program for a product I would like to promote or through ones I have already signed up with
2. Look at other lensmasters and others that are actually making money to learn from them
3. Watch a video or listen to call to help my Squidoo or Internet skills
4. StubmleUpon, Delicious, and/or Digg my lenses This usually all combined takes me about 2 hours so then I conclude with updating what I have done at $50 a day with Squidoo and my blog and go to bed.

If any of these "regular" activities do not make cents (get it?) and you KNOW them to be a waste of time on my journey to $50 a day with Squidoo please tell me so I do not waste my time. Thanks in advance. Following is a list of what I am NOT doing anymore:

Not obsessed with lensrank

Visiting everyone and ranking and signing guestbooks and becoming everyone's "friend"

Using banners ads and replacing with more links

Stopped wondering about making money and taking action

Nov 22, Adding new lenses

Sat, 22 Nov 2008 03:14:16 GMT

Stopped by at Add your profile and added some friends. Split up my Self Help DVD into 2 lenses -- Self Help DVD and Motivational Movies Made a new lens Brian Tracy products in an effort to get some more sales I am going to make more affiliate product related lenses. We'll see how it goes..

Nov 21, $50 a day with Squidoo -- No sale today :(

Fri, 21 Nov 2008 05:07:47 GMT

Submitted my lenses to Yahoo where you can submit your url on Yahoo Submit url not sure if this was worth it? Made 2 posts at SquidU. Twittered the update to my $50 a day with Squidoo Lens and my Self Help Quote Lens

Nov 20, Not much on Squidoo today - pretty tired

Thu, 20 Nov 2008 04:34:29 GMT

Forgot about SquidDirectory Group so now I am adding to Squid Directory, Lensroll, and Squid Point all at the same time. 2 posts at SquidU. Read some great tips from Joan at Squidoo Marketing on Ning. Published my new lens Motivational Movies which was just split up from my Self Help DVD lens. Looking at some affiliate programs and products that I would want to promote. If you don't know most products have affiliate programs where you can signup and if you make a sale you make money!!

Nov 19, Made another sale and some strategy decisions

Wed, 19 Nov 2008 04:05:00 GMT

Great news: Made an affiliate sale = $35.98 on my Self Help DVD Lens at least I am pretty sure it was from there -- actually not positive because I do not see a click out from any of my different websites?
Made 2 posts to SquidU
Tip: Squidpoint and Lensroll are very similar so I have been submitting the same 2 lenses to them at the same time.
My new lens is now ranked 1,464 in its 3rd day.
Made another decision: I have decided to split up some of my lenses into more specific and targeted lenses. For example, I am going to make a few lenses out of my Self Help DVD lens. I have given other people advice to be very focused with their lenses (just taking my own advice).

Nov 18, $50 a day with Squidoo Lens at #2,254 in Day 2

Tue, 18 Nov 2008 03:17:52 GMT

Signed up for Lensroll and submitting lenses. Twittered about this lens. Made 2 posts at SquidU Forum. Lensrolled some helpful How to Squidoo lenses to the $50 a day with Squidoo lens Looking for ideas on how to improve this lens?? It has jumped to 43rd in Squidoo Tips and 2,254 in its 2nd day. I am amazed. Will this help get me closer to my $50 a day goal? Confused by Pepperjam so I may look at working some other affiliate programs that I have signed up with over the years (mostly with no success).

Nov 17, It's Easy to Earn Money by Bob Proctor

Mon, 17 Nov 2008 03:32:27 GMT

Free Self Help article "It's Easy to Earn Money" by Bob Proctor brought to you by Best Self-Help.com

Nov 16, $50 a day with Squidoo

Sun, 16 Nov 2008 01:55:55 GMT

Definitely have the feeling of what to do next on my $50 a day challenge. When confused I usually do not get much done and today has been no exception. Looking at other websites on how to make money on Squidoo. Checked in at Squidpoint and submitted a couple more of my lenses. Checked in at Beginners Marketing Class, and checked in at SquidU. I have noticed SquidU has high rankings and a fair amount of traffic back to my lenses so starting today I am going to make a couple of posts a day at SquidU.

Nov 15, Made a Sale from my Squidoo page

Sat, 15 Nov 2008 20:51:27 GMT

In my Squidoo income quest, I just made a $33 commission on an affiliate program I am in through one of my Squidoo lenses!!! Learning about Pepperjam to generate some more cash Traffic has spiked on my Self Help Quotes Lens from posting a couple of the self help quotes on Twitter The lens has climbed to #1,484 Overall This update was from 11/13 but I had a blog problem. 11/14 went to an activity at Church at night so no activity toward my $50 a day on Squidoo challenge

Nov 13, Today's steps to $50 a day on Squidoo

Thu, 13 Nov 2008 03:33:01 GMT

Joan has agreed learn Pepperjam and to make some money with me. And she suggested submitting my lenses to
SquidPoint
Isle of Squid
Lensroll
Squoogle

Not much time today so we'll see.

Nov 12, This Squidoo journey sure has me learning

Wed, 12 Nov 2008 03:30:33 GMT

In my research for widgets, (a way to make some money on my Squidoo lens or at least I think) I kept seeing talk about CPA's. I always thought CPA meant Certified Public Accountant NOT in the Internet world. It means Cost-Per-Action and now I need to find a place to sign up with. I am looking at Pepperjam... Ready to join this Squidoo income journey with me? Post your goal and let's get there together.

Nov 11, Update on $50 a day with Squidoo

Tue, 11 Nov 2008 22:39:51 GMT

What I am working on now to get to goal: Submitting lenses to the Squidoo Directory for traffic and lensrank Two step process (takes a few minutes which is probably why I avoided doing this earlier). Squid Directory
SquidDirectory Group on Squidoo

Going to do some research on adding some widgets to add to my lenses? Let me know at Twitter or here at BestSelf-Help.com

Nov 11, Guide to getting started with Squidoo

Tue, 11 Nov 2008 03:54:46 GMT

Here is a step by step guide on how to get started on Squidoo: Step 1: List down 5 things that you sre really, really interested in the more specific, the better. Do not think too hard or try to think of which ways you will make the most money. Just list down things that first come to mind. Step 2: Do a quick search on Squidoo to see if your favorite topics are already being covered. If they are already being covered widely, consider a few other topics or make it more specific. If you are not too concerned about competition, then feel free to skip this step. Step 3: Concentrate on one topic and start creating your lens. Think of what type of lens you wish to create and follow the prompts. You will be guided along the way! I consider the name very important because it will become a part of the url (for example: http://www.squidoo.com/self-help-blogs) so choose wisely. Step 4: Add content! Here is where you can start sharing what you know. Be sure to cover the basic who, what, why, how, etc, Click below to read the rest of the steps

Nov 11, My September Squidoo earnings

Tue, 11 Nov 2008 02:48:11 GMT

Just received my September earnings and they totaled $25.68 with 2 tier one lenses. Thus to get to $50 a day I need 125 lenses in the top 2,000 or I better learn how to sell something on Squidoo. Any Ideas?

Nov 8, Make Money with Squidoo challenge

Sat, 08 Nov 2008 23:20:47 GMT

I just decided some how some way I am going to be making $50 or more per day with Squidoo by Dec 31st. How about you? It is now Nov 2008, and I have had Squidoo lenses (individual Squidoo web pages) for a little over a year now. Lenses with information I enjoy without much attention to how to make money for myself or my charities. I do make a little bit but not even enough for a coffee a day (even a no frills cheap brand). Because Squidoo is very search engine friendly it can have many other purposes besides making money but this thread is reserved for those that want to make cold hard cash for themselves or their charity. The main ways to make money with Squidoo are 1. Revenue share with Google and Glam ads on your Squidoo lens 2. Revenue share Amazon, eBay auctions, Orbitz, Netflix, Cafepress, and more. 3. Affiliate sales 4. Network marketing products 5. Selling your own products 6. Let's get creative... I will help with how to put a lens together, explaining modules (different parts of a Squidoo lens/website), and how to generate traffic. How can you help? Let us know what is working for you as you get sales, different ideas, post links of ways others are making money with Squidoo, and being a supportive helpful team member. As of today, my focus will be to find those that are actually making money with Squidoo and to learn, implement, and share the successful strategies. New to Squidoo? No worries. Squidoo is Free Not a Beginners Marketing Class member? No worries. The BMC forum is free. So Let's get started. If you want to join (posting your goal on the Internet for all to see -- kinda scary) please register in the link below with how much you will be making (for yourself and/or charities) by Dec 31st. I'll start. It is now Dec 31st, 2008 and I am so happy and grateful to be making $50 or more per day with Squidoo sharing products, services, and information. Mark Nehs, BestSelf-Help.com

Nov 8, Four Hour WorkWeek by Tim Ferris My Review

Sat, 08 Nov 2008 20:13:10 GMT

This book is informative, how-to, to the point, and basically a must have for your library (I own the book and the audio book) -- it is a paradigm changer. Tim Ferriss tells you what to eliminate and how to go about eliminating those useless things our lives.

The 4 Hour Workweek is full of great ideas on how to automate your business and your life. The tools and tricks he gives you alone are well worth the cost of the audio book.

If you need help focusing on what it is you need to get done and how to get rid of the clutter this is the book for you.

Learn more about Tim Ferriss and the 4 Hour WorkWeek

For anyone that purchases the audio book -- I have put all the tools and tricks onto a web page. Just contact me here at Best Self-Help and I will send you the link.

All the Best,
Mark Nehs

Nov 4, The Best Self Help Books of all time including Hill, Covey, Carnegie

Tue, 04 Nov 2008 03:34:08 GMT

Self Help books that will help you now; From classic Self-Help books to the newer stuff like The Secret and the 4 Hour Workweek

Nov 1, Summary of the 100th Monkey Story from BestSelf-Help.com

Sat, 01 Nov 2008 03:31:39 GMT

Summary of the 100th Monkey Story from BestSelf-Help.com

Oct 31, LetsReflect.com

Fri, 31 Oct 2008 02:36:33 GMT

Self-Actualization is the desire to reach your full potential. The LetsReflect.com community believes you can reach your full potential through a process called "Reflecting". Jonathan's profile Jonathan, the founder of LetsReflect.com, wanted me to share his website with other BestSelf-Help.com followers and I am glad to oblige. Enjoy. Mark.

Oct 28, Best Self-Help Contact Us

Tue, 28 Oct 2008 12:29:01 GMT

Contact information for Best Self-Help where you find the Best Self Help products