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    <title>Jul 29, BestSelf-Help.com where you will find the Best Self Help DVDs, Audio books,..</title>
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    <description>Find the Best Self Help DVDs, Audio books, books, links, complete programs, suggestions, and free self help all at BestSelf-Help.com</description>
    <pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 22:39:47 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Jul 29, Self Help Audio Book:  Download Self Help Audio Books at 40 off</title>
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    <description>Download Self Help Audio Books to your computer, MP3, or iPod; The Secret audio, Success Principles, 4 Hour Workweek are all included; Find your favorite Self Help Audio Book</description>
    <pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 22:33:57 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Jul 29, Complete Self Help Programs; Science of Getting Rich</title>
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    <description>Bob Proctor, Jack Canfield, Michael Beckwith dissect and explain how to act, think, and be wealthy. One of the best self help programs ever!</description>
    <pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 22:03:36 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Jul 29, 100 Quotes from The Secret; The Secret Quotes</title>
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    <description>100 of the best quotes from The Secret;  Law of Attraction quotes; &quot;What we think about and THANK about&quot;  &quot;Life is meant to be abundant in ALL areas...  The Secret Quotes</description>
    <pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 21:46:27 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Jul 29, Self Help DVDs by Brian Tracy, Bob Proctor; Les Brown</title>
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    <description>The Best Self Help speakers in the world including Jack Canfield, Les Brown, and Brian Tracy recorded live on DVD; Self Help DVDs are a great way to learn</description>
    <pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 00:58:45 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Jul 26, Free Self Help Gifts from BestSelf-Help.com: Free downloads</title>
    <link>http://www.bestself-help.com/free-self-help.html</link>
    <description>Downloadable Free Self Help Gifts from Bob Proctor, Jack Canfield, Brian Tracy, as an MP3, PDF, download, and many great Self-Help Quotes</description>
    <pubDate>Mon, 26 Jul 2010 23:59:59 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Jul 26, Looking to Increase your Self Confidence?</title>
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    <description>Think of all the things you haven&#39;t done YET.  As you think about those things, ask yourself, &quot;What has been stopping me?&quot;  The likelihood is that Self-Confidence is a major factor.

You probably already know that successful people who have high levels of Self-Confidence seem to be unstoppable at everything they do.


Self doubt, fear and lack of Self-Confidence can hold you back from achieving your goals. But if you had Unstoppable Self-Confidence you&#39;d naturally become aware that you can solve any problem and handle any obstacle on your path to making your dreams become a reality.

Learn as over 1.5 million already have from Dr. Robert Anthony</description>
    <pubDate>Mon, 26 Jul 2010 01:16:53 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Jul 26, 4 Hour WorkWeek Revised and Updated</title>
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    <description>More than 100 pages of new, cutting-edge content were added to the original. Forget the old concept of retirement and the rest of the deferred-life plan there is no need to wait and every reason not to, especially in unpredictable economic times. Whether your dream is escaping the rat race, experiencing high-end world travel, earning a monthly five-figure income with zero management, or just living more and working less, The 4-Hour Workweek is the blueprint.
The bestseller 4-Hour Work Week has been revised and updated for you to succeed in working smarter in 2010.  The advice Tim Ferris provides will not only get you thinking it will get you into action.  He has personally done what he suggests and they will work for you as well. I highly recommend this book.

Mark Nehs, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.bestself-help.com&quot;&gt;BestSelf-Help.com&lt;/a&gt;</description>
    <pubDate>Mon, 26 Jul 2010 01:02:55 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Jul 23, Silva Life System Silva Mind Control System</title>
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    <description>Learn about the Silva Life System and all of the Silva Mind Products</description>
    <pubDate>Fri, 23 Jul 2010 00:57:52 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Jul 23, Sign Up as an Affiliate; Self Help Programs</title>
    <link>http://www.bestself-help.com/affiliatesignup.html</link>
    <description>Become an affiliate self help programs</description>
    <pubDate>Fri, 23 Jul 2010 00:55:03 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Jul 21, Jose Silva Interview, his thoughts and methods</title>
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    <description>Interview with the former world renowned mind expert Jose Silva Interview</description>
    <pubDate>Wed, 21 Jul 2010 00:14:18 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>May 16, Self Help Quotes from Brian Tracy, Bob Proctor, and many more</title>
    <link>http://www.bestself-help.com/self-help-quotes.html</link>
    <description>Hundreds of Self Help Quotes from Jack Canfield, Timothy Ferriss, Les Brown, Bob Proctor, Brian Tracy and many more from BestSelf-Help.com</description>
    <pubDate>Sun, 16 May 2010 01:38:58 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>May 15, Learn ALL the Laws</title>
    <link>http://www.bestself-help.com/Laws</link>
    <description>As a student of Bob Proctor&#39;s coaching program we were privileged to have Mary Morrissey conduct a few calls with us. She and Bob are great teachers and the fact that they came together for the 11 Forgotten Laws makes it even more powerful. They have different styles but you will find yourself connecting with both of them.

The 11 Forgotten Laws are full of content but not over complicated

The 11 Forgotten Laws are simple but not easy

The 11 Forgotten Laws will help you to improve your life not only today but forever

&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.bestself-help.com/Laws&quot;&gt;Click Here to Learn More about the 11 Forgotten Laws&lt;/a&gt;

You will also receive a copy of Raymond Holliwell&#39;s &lt;u&gt;Working with the Law&lt;/u&gt;. This book was a huge step for Bob and will be for you too!!</description>
    <pubDate>Sat, 15 May 2010 02:55:01 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>May 12, Learning Styles - What is your preferred learning style?</title>
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    <description>Retain information up to 75 better; Learning styles - viisual, auditory, and kinesthetic</description>
    <pubDate>Wed, 12 May 2010 01:50:48 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>May 9, Self Help Links, Suggested Self Help affiliate programs, Forums</title>
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    <description>Links to Web 2.0 resources, Affiliate programs, Forums, self help blogs, and several links to Self Help websites</description>
    <pubDate>Sun, 09 May 2010 18:39:24 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>May 2, Four Hour WorkWeek Tools and Tricks Chapter by Chapter Tim Ferris author</title>
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    <description>Tools and Tricks Chapter by Chapter from The Four Hour Workweek; Find all the Websites listed in the 4-Hour Workweek by Timothy Ferris</description>
    <pubDate>Sun, 02 May 2010 01:49:49 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>May 1, John Maxwell&#39;s Thinking for a Change on Sale</title>
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    <description>I am big fan of John Maxwell and a firm believer we can make big and significant changes and contributions if we change our thinking.

At the heart of John C. Maxwell&#39;s brilliant and inspiring book is a simple premise: To do well in life, we must first think well. But can we actually learn new mental habits? Thinking for a Change answers that with a resounding &quot;yes&quot; - and shows how changing your thinking can indeed change your life.

Drawing on the words and deeds of many of the world&#39;s greatest leaders and using interactive quizzes, this empowering book helps you assess your thinking style, guides you to new ones, and step by step teaches you the secrets of:

-Big-Picture Thinking - seeing the world beyond your own needs and how that leads to great ideas.
-Focused Thinking - removing mental clutter and distractions to realize your full potential.
-Creative Thinking - stepping out of the &quot;box&quot; and making breakthroughs.
-Shared Thinking - working with others to compound results.
-Reflective Thinking - looking at the past to gain a better understanding of the future ... and much more.

Thinking for a Change is a unique primer not on what to think, but how to best use one of your most precious possessions: your mind. Enjoy. I sure did. Click below to Download the audio.</description>
    <pubDate>Sat, 01 May 2010 03:20:54 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>May 1, Summary by Dale Carnegie himself of How to Win Friends and Influence People</title>
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    <description>How to Win Friends and Influence People Summary by Dale Carnegie</description>
    <pubDate>Sat, 01 May 2010 00:18:48 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Apr 24, It&#39;s Easy to Earn Money by Bob Proctor</title>
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    <description>Free Self Help article &quot;It&#39;s Easy to Earn Money&quot; by Bob Proctor brought to you by Best Self-Help.com</description>
    <pubDate>Sat, 24 Apr 2010 17:26:02 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Apr 23, Brian Tracy DVD; Live Seminars put on DVDs; Brian Tracy Video</title>
    <link>http://www.bestself-help.com/brian-tracy-dvd.html</link>
    <description>#1 trainer today on DVD in your home or office teaching you how to double sales, productivity, effectiveness..; Get your Brian Tracy DVD here</description>
    <pubDate>Fri, 23 Apr 2010 01:53:01 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Apr 16, Take that Next Step with Think and Grow Rich</title>
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    <description>Remember reading Think and Grow Rich and Napoleon Hill talking about the Hidden Secret?  He did not directly state what the Hidden Secret was in his book but he did leave several clues in the introduction of his book.  What was it? &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.bestself-help.com/Hidden-Secret&quot;&gt;Find Out More&lt;/a&gt;</description>
    <pubDate>Fri, 16 Apr 2010 03:31:38 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Mar 29, Just made $5 with TwittAd</title>
    <link>http://www.bestself-help.com/Best-Self-Help-blog.html#Just-made-$5-with-TwittAd</link>
    <description>I would have to say it was relatively painless.  An advertiser via &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.twittad.com/a/f0&quot;&gt;twittad&lt;/a&gt; requests to advertise on your Twitter account and they tell you how much they will pay you.  I said yes and now I have $5 more dollars than I used to have</description>
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    <title>Feb 22, Science of Getting Rich Quotes by Wallace Wattles</title>
    <link>http://www.bestself-help.com/Science-of-Getting-Rich-Quotes.html</link>
    <description>Science of Getting Rich quotes from Wallace Wattles classic book: SOGR Quotations</description>
    <pubDate>Mon, 22 Feb 2010 03:45:09 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Feb 20, The Best Self Help Books of all time including Hill, Covey, Carnegie</title>
    <link>http://www.bestself-help.com/self-help-books.html</link>
    <description>Self Help books that will help you now; From classic Self-Help books to the newer stuff like The Secret and the 4 Hour Workweek</description>
    <pubDate>Sat, 20 Feb 2010 21:22:28 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Jan 19, My initial thoughts on the Science of Getting Rich</title>
    <link>http://www.bestself-help.com/free-self-help.html</link>
    <description>This was a book that took a while for me to get used too. After you learn/understand this book in its simplicity the pure genius will astound you. In one of the early chapters he basically tells you to just trust him that what he says is true. Unfortunately, I did not trust Wallace Wattles and I set this book aside for many years Part of it was because I read it for the first time in my mid 20&#39;s and figured how could this little book written so long ago have it all figured out. I sure was wrong and Wallace Wattles did have it all figured out and this book is worth reading/listening/masterminding to for a lifetime. Mark Nehs, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.bestself-help.com&quot;&gt;BestSelf-Help.com&lt;/a&gt;</description>
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    <title>Jan 16, Maximum Achievement by Brian Tracy On Sale Buy for 9.22</title>
    <link>http://www.bestself-help.com/Best-Self-Help-blog.html#Maximum-Achievement-by-Brian-Tracy-On-Sale-Buy-for-9.22</link>
    <description>January Special Save an additional 20 this month Only on &lt;a href=&quot;alive.com/title.aspx?titleId=6200&amp;aId=103360&quot;&gt;Brian Tracy&#39;s Maximum Achievement&lt;/a&gt;, Tracy presents a proven system of powerful ideas and principles you can use to rapidly improve your life.

He has combined insights and methods from psychology, philosophy, metaphysics and human potential research to create a unique program that will:

* Streamline your focus for maximum results

* Remove mental barriers that stand in the way of your dreams

* Provide you with the essential conditions for change

* Develop superior relationships in your personal and professional life

By following the principles of Maximum Achievement&#39;s Master Plan, you can build a foundation for a life of happiness, health, harmony and prosperity.

My self help journey started for me in 1996 when I attended a live full day seminar with several speakers, one of which was Brian Tracy. He boldly said if you buy these two sets of audio tapes you will triple your income in six months but you must listen repeatedly and take actions on what you learned.

I said triple my income? That sounds pretty good so I bought the Psychology of Achievement and the Psychology of Selling for $120 and started listening. Sure enough, I went from making $3,500 a month to $10,000 a month in just 6 months, which wasn&#39;t quite 3 times but pretty close.

Maybe you will start your journey in 2010 with &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.squidoo.com/BrianTracyproducts&quot;&gt;Brian Tracy&lt;/a&gt; as well?</description>
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    <title>Jan 10, Free Book and Audio on the Silva Life System</title>
    <link>http://www.bestself-help.com/Best-Self-Help-blog.html#Free-Book-and-Audio-on-the-Silva-Life-System</link>
    <description>*  A Nine Lesson Training Program on Harnessing the Power of Your Mind.&lt;br&gt;
    * One 30 min Audio designed to Guide you to a Deep Level of Meditation. You can download this in MP3 or Internet Audio.&lt;br&gt;
    * Access to our Online Support Community where you can get questions answered and share experiences with over 2000 active members&lt;p&gt;

You will receive nine lessons over the next three weeks. A new lesson will be sent to you every three days. Each lesson will contain an explanation of a new technique. The techniques will get more advanced with each new lesson.

By breaking this course into several fragments and spreading them out over a few weeks we allow you to better retain and understand the material presented.

&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.silvalifesystem.com/products/demo?a_aid=8361e7b9&quot;&gt;Click here for the free lessons&lt;/a&gt;</description>
    <pubDate>Sun, 10 Jan 2010 02:48:00 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Jan 5, Step by Step on How to Get Started on Squidoo</title>
    <link>http://www.bestself-help.com/Getting-Started-on-Squidoo.html</link>
    <description>The basics of how to get started on Squidoo</description>
    <pubDate>Tue, 05 Jan 2010 03:17:06 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Jan 5, Great Book for the New Year</title>
    <link>http://www.bestself-help.com/Best-Self-Help-blog.html#Great-Book-for-the-New-Year</link>
    <description>The Question Journey is profoundly insightful and certainly is a Journey you should consider taking on for yourself.

Excerpt from the book that I think helps us to understand the Journey Trish Bishop is leading us on:

&quot;The knowledge of who and what we are lives within each of us, always. All we need to do is make the time and be open and willing to explore it. ... The Question Journey is a tool to help you begin the process of reclaiming your authentic self.&quot;

This is a book that helps you to look at yourself in a new way and if you let it will put you a new path.

Mark Nehs, BestSelf-Help.com</description>
    <pubDate>Tue, 05 Jan 2010 02:34:53 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Jan 1, 140 Self Help Blogs</title>
    <link>http://www.bestself-help.com/Best-Self-Help-blog.html#140-Self-Help-Blogs</link>
    <description>Find the Best Self Help Blogs on the Internet from Steve Pavlina to LOA blogs to Life changing blogs. You are sure to find a blog or two from this list of blogs that will help you on your journey -- I know I have.</description>
    <pubDate>Fri, 01 Jan 2010 04:06:22 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Jan 1, Testimonials about the Silva Method</title>
    <link>http://www.bestself-help.com/Best-Self-Help-blog.html#Testimonials-about-the-Silva-Method</link>
    <description>&quot;By connecting and harnessing the power of the subconscious and conscious minds with our body&#39;s intuitive wisdom, The Silva Method dissolves our fears, removes our mental blocks, transforms our limiting beliefs and unfolds our deepest values, opening us to the power we have within each of us to create the world we yearn to share&quot; - Paul O Connor&lt;br /&gt;
&quot;The Silva method is an empowering learning experience that will enable you to take control of your physical, mental, spiritual and emotional wellbeing.&quot; - Karen Seegert&lt;br /&gt;
&quot;Silva...Changing the world, one MIND at a time!&quot; - Debi D&lt;br /&gt;
&quot;The Silva Method is a scientifically backed esoteric system that gets your life in order and then accelerates it into the direction you want it to go&quot; - Chris &lt;br /&gt;
&quot;The Silva Method settles the mind, stirs the soul and sparks the spirit for ultimate serenity&quot; - Sandra Kraus</description>
    <pubDate>Fri, 01 Jan 2010 00:14:29 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Dec 29, Some Great Self Help Quotes</title>
    <link>http://www.bestself-help.com/self-help-quotes.html</link>
    <description>&quot;You only lose energy when life becomes dull in your mind. Your mind gets
bored and therefore tired of doing nothing. Get interested in something! Get
absolutely enthralled in something! Get out of yourself! Be somebody! Do
something. The more you lose yourself in something bigger than yourself, the
more energy you will have.&quot;

Norman Vincent Peale
1898-1993, Pastor, Speaker and Author

&quot;Do not wait; the time will never be &#39;just right.&#39; Start where you stand,
and work with whatever tools you may have at your command, and better tools
will be found as you go along.&quot;

Napoleon Hill
1883-1970, Author of Think and Grow Rich

&quot;Pretend that every single person you meet has a sign around his or her neck
that says, &#39;Make me feel important.&#39; Not only will you succeed in sales, you
will succeed in life.&quot;

Mary Kay Ash
1918-2001, Founder of Mary Kay Cosmetics

&quot;Most great people have achieved their greatest success just one step beyond
their greatest failure.&quot;

Napoleon Hill


&quot;Our minds become magnetized with the dominating thoughts we hold in our
minds, and these magnets attract to us the forces, the people, the
circumstances of life which harmonize with the nature of our dominating
thoughts.&quot;

Napoleon Hill


&quot;Self-disciplined begins with the mastery of your thoughts. If you don&#39;t
control what you think, you can&#39;t control what you do.&quot;

Napoleon Hill


&quot;Learn to enjoy every minute of your life. Be happy now. Don&#39;t wait for
something outside of yourself to make you happy in the future. Think how
really precious is the time you have to spend, whether it&#39;s at work or with
your family. Every minute should be enjoyed and savored.&quot;

Earl Nightingale
1921-1989, Author and Radio Announcer

&quot;Remember, happiness doesn&#39;t depend on who you are or what you have; it
depends solely on what you think.&quot;

Dale Carnegie
1888-1955, Writer and Lecturer

&quot;We&#39;ve all heard that we have to learn from our mistakes, but I think it&#39;s
more important to learn from successes. If you learn only from your
mistakes, you are inclined to learn only errors.&quot;

Norman Vincent Peale
1898-1993, Pastor and Author

&quot;The difference between great people and everyone else is that great people
create their lives actively, while everyone else is created by their lives,
passively waiting to see where life takes them next. The difference between
the two is the difference between living fully and just existing.&quot;

Michael E. Gerber
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    <title>Dec 29, Recent Updates on the 50 a day with Squidoo</title>
    <link>http://www.bestself-help.com/Best-Self-Help-blog.html#Recent-Updates-on-the-50-a-day-with-Squidoo</link>
    <description>Added the &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.squidoo.com/lens-workshop-addon&quot;&gt;Lens Workshop Firefox&lt;/a&gt; which helped me a great deal with tags, navigation, pinging, and lensrank. Thanks &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.squidoo.com/lensmasters/thefluffanutta&quot;&gt;fluffanutta&lt;/a&gt;

Just saw $7 in my &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.pjatr.com/t/Qj1GQUFJPUJBQEdIPUNFRQ&quot;&gt;Pepperjam&lt;/a&gt; account not sure how or why because it has confused me -- time to learn!!

Sold 3 books through the Amazon module!! I thought the Amazon module wasn&#39;t working (just kidding it just didn&#39;t seem like it).

Signed up for &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.twittad.com/a/f0&quot;&gt;TwitAd&lt;/a&gt; to get more money (monetize your Twitter account we&#39;ll see...). Affiliate &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.bestself-help.com/two-tier-affiliate.html&quot;&gt;sales&lt;/a&gt; today for $48.93!! It&#39;s starting to gain some momentum.

Getting Amazon sales from this &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.squidoo.com/4-Hour-Workweek-Tim-Ferriss&quot;&gt;lens&lt;/a&gt; and pretty much this one only. Happy about the sales but why not my other lenses??

Just checked and did make a nice affiliate sale this week $71 &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.squidoo.com/Silva-Life&quot;&gt;affiliate lens&lt;/a&gt;

Discovering outbound links, SquidU posts, and &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.squidoo.com/Ping-Tools&quot;&gt;pinging&lt;/a&gt; are a bigger factor on lensrank then I thought because when I don&#39;t do these things I see a drop in visitors and lensrank.</description>
    <pubDate>Tue, 29 Dec 2009 00:44:30 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Dec 5, The Two Choices We Face by Jim Rohn</title>
    <link>http://www.bestself-help.com/Best-Self-Help-blog.html#The-Two-Choices-We-Face-by-Jim-Rohn</link>
    <description>Jim Rohn motivational speaker and author Each of us has two distinct choices to make about what we will do with our lives. The first choice we can make is to be less than we have the capacity to be. To earn less. To have less. To read less and think less. To try less and discipline ourselves less.

These are the choices that lead to an empty life. These are the choices that, once made, lead to a life of constant apprehension instead of a life of wondrous anticipation.

And the second choice? To do it all! To become all that we can possibly be. To read every book that we possibly can. To earn as much as we possibly can. To give and share as much as we possibly can. To strive and produce and accomplish as much as we possibly can. All of us have the choice.

To do or not to do. To be or not to be. To be all or to be less or to be nothing at all.

Like the tree, it would be a worthy challenge for us all to stretch upward and outward to the full measure of our capabilities. Why not do all that we can, every moment that we can, the best that we can, for as long as we can?

Our ultimate life objective should be to create as much as our talent and ability and desire will permit. To settle for doing less than we could do is to fail in this worthiest of undertakings.

Results are the best measurement of human progress. Not conversation. Not explanation. Not justification. Results! And if our results are less than our potential suggests that they should be, then we must strive to become more today than we were the day before.

The greatest rewards are always reserved for those who bring great value to themselves and the world around them as a result of who and what they have become.

To Your Success,
 
Jim Rohn, Foremost Business Philosopher</description>
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    <title>Dec 3, Top 40 Self Help Blogs by Online</title>
    <link>http://www.bestself-help.com/Best-Self-Help-blog.html#Top-40-Self-Help-Blogs-by-Online</link>
    <description>We only have one life to live as the saying goes. Why not try to be the best we can be in all areas of life? From controlling your anger to surpassing your career goals, we all can use helpful advice, encouragement, and that much needed kick in the rear to steer us in the right direction. 

The Internet is quickly becoming a way for self help experts to provide assistance on many of the issues we face by way of blogging. These blogs can aid us with the motivation to live our lives the best way possible by reading heartfelt stories and inspiring articles and commentary. To get you started, weve compiled a list of 40 of these blogs focusing on the important aspects like Personal Development, Physical &amp; Mental Health, Finance, Relationships, Career Development &amp; Personal Branding, as well as some motivational resources.

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    <title>Nov 24, Best Self Help Books Ever</title>
    <link>http://www.bestself-help.com/Best-Self-Help-blog.html#Best-Self-Help-Books-Ever</link>
    <description>Adding to the popularity of voting for your favorite self help book here at BestSelf-Help.com; I added another way to vote. You will find a collection of the greatest self help books of all time.  Classic and current self help books that have helped millions on the path to recovery and the path to greatness. This is not my list but a list of books gathered over the years.  Enjoy and I know we will all benefit from this great list of self-help books.</description>
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    <title>Nov 7, Getting going on my Journey</title>
    <link>http://www.bestself-help.com/Best-Self-Help-blog.html#Getting-going-on-my-Journey</link>
    <description>The Question Journey is profoundly insightful and certainly is a Journey you should consider taking on for yourself.

Excerpt from the book that I think helps to understand the Journey Trish Bishop is leading us on:

&quot;The knowledge of who and what we are lives within each of us, always. All we need to do is make the time and be open and willing to explore it. ... &lt;i&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://uenmt.uqlpg.servertrust.com/?Click=14&quot;&gt;The Question Journey&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/i&gt; is a tool to help you begin the process of reclaiming your authentic self.&quot;</description>
    <pubDate>Sat, 07 Nov 2009 01:55:25 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Nov 3, John Maxwell&#39;s On Sale</title>
    <link>http://www.bestself-help.com/Best-Self-Help-blog.html#John-Maxwell&#39;s-On-Sale</link>
    <description>I am big fan of John Maxwell and am proud to say we have one of his audio books on sale this month.

Drawing from the text of the Business Week bestseller Today Matters, this condensed, revised edition boils down John C. Maxwell&#39;s 12 daily practices to their very essence, giving maximum impact in minimal time.

Presented in a quick-listen format, this version is designed to be read cover to cover in one sitting or taken in as brief lessons in a few spare minutes each day.

It covers such topics as:

-- Priorities

-- Health

-- Family

-- Finances

-- Values

-- Growth

Listeners will learn how to make decisions on important matters and apply those decisions daily to put them on a path to more successful, productive, and fulfilling lives.</description>
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    <title>Oct 31, Found a new Book -- The Question Journey</title>
    <link>http://www.bestself-help.com/Best-Self-Help-blog.html#Found-a-new-Book----The-Question-Journey</link>
    <description>A new book written Trish Bishop takes a different approach to discovery and your own enlightenment. 

About the book from the website:

&quot;The Question Journey is a guided self-development journal that provides powerful tools to silence the stealthy sabotage that seems to consistently show up in your life. Too often we feel there are important answers for us, but they are just out of reach. We never seem to feel fulfilled or, more often, we feel that something is missing. So we go in search of this missing piece or elusive answers by attending seminars and workshops and buying books and looking for the experts to help us find our way. We have been conditioned to look outside of ourselves, when the truth is that every answer we could ever want is already within our own hearts; and they are available to us if we simply have the courage to look. The teachers and gurus and personal development experts are all saying the same thing; look inside, everything you need is right there. Every tool they give you, the stories and examples they provide, are all designed to help you get back to your authentic self.&quot;

I am starting The Question Journey myself and will let you know...</description>
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    <title>Oct 19, How to Make Money With Squidoo</title>
    <link>http://www.bestself-help.com/Best-Self-Help-blog.html#How-to-Make-Money-With-Squidoo</link>
    <description>&lt;!DOCTYPE HTML PUBLIC &#39;-//W3C//DTD HTML 4.01 Transitional//EN&#39; &#39;http://www.w3.org/TR/html4/loose.dtd&#39;&gt;
&lt;html&gt;By: Daniel Gebura&lt;br&gt;&lt;p&gt;Squidoo lenses are great way to spread the word about your interests, hobbies and passion. Not only because they are free to use but also because they have a one more important advantage that you can use to its full potential. This advantage is search engines indexing.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Squidoo lenses come from high page rank website which makes them more likely to be indexed by search engines such us Google, Yahoo or MSN.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;All online marketers know that the search engines traffic is the best quality one that the can ever get. Why? Because its free traffic and its targeted, which means that people find websites they need by typing particular search terms into search engines.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Taking this advantage you can get your free Squidoo lenses to the top of search engines making your online marketing cost effective and really profitable.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Bit first of all what it takes to build good quality lens?&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;li&gt;&lt;p&gt;Well if you have some product to promote you should, do the keyword research for this product, to find the keywords that have high volume of daily searches and less competition (under 1 million of Google results).&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;p&gt;Next you should create you lens beginning from the title for which you should use the researched keyword.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;p&gt;Next you should create some valuable content that will engage the reader. If the purpose of your lens is to promote particular product, then first you can write 300 500 words review of this product. It should explain all the features of the product and what kind of problem it can solve as people usually look for solutions and opportunities. And here remember to insert your keyword at least once in every paragraph. Keep amount of keywords decent but dont overdo it to keep the quality of your content good as well.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;p&gt;Also you can bold your keyword a few times along the article and use it for the headlines and titles in your lens as well.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;p&gt;Finally right after the content you can insert necessary links, banners and images that will direct your visitor to the sales page of your product.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ol&gt;&lt;p&gt;When you finally have your lens ready, you need to spread the word about it.
And here for search engines indexing purposes you should backlink to your lens from other sites using anchor text link which will be your keyword. This will speed up the process of indexing your lenses in search engines and allow higher rankings.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;By mixing good quality content that will engage the visitor with good search engine optimization you will be able to make a living from Squidoo marketing.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;b&gt;Author Resource:-&gt;&lt;/b&gt;  Daniel Gebura is an experienced online marketer who helps ordinary people to build a successful home business.To find the best home based business ideas and opportunities so you can work at home visit: &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.Financial3dom.net&quot; title=&quot;http://www.Financial3dom.net&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;http://www.Financial3dom.net&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/body&gt;&lt;/html&gt;</description>
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    <title>Aug 29, NEVER LOSE HOPE IN DEALING WITH YOUR FEARS AND DEPRESSION</title>
    <link>http://www.bestself-help.com/Best-Self-Help-blog.html#NEVER-LOSE-HOPE-IN-DEALING-WITH-YOUR-FEARS-AND-DEPRESSION</link>
    <description>When your fears and depression have the best of you, it is easy to feel that things will not get any better. This is not true. There is much help available in todays society and the best way to deal with your fears is to find effective ways to overcome them. As a result, here are some techniques a person can use to help manage their fears and anxieties.

You never know when the answers you are looking for will come to your doorstep. Even if the thing that you feared does happen, there are circumstances and factors that you cant predict which can be used to your advantage. These factors can change everything. Remember: we may be ninety-nine percent correct in predicting the future, but all it takes is for that one percent to make a world of difference.

Challenge your negative thinking with positive statements and realistic thinking. When encountering thoughts that make you feel fearful or depressed, challenge those thoughts by asking yourself questions that will maintain objectivity and common sense. 

Some people get depressed and have a difficult time getting out of bed in the mornings. When this happens, a person should take a deep breath and try to find something to do to get their mind off of the problem. A person could take a walk, listen to some music, read the newspaper or do an activity that will give them a fresh perspective on things. Doing something will get your mind off of the problem and give you confidence to do other things.
 
Be smart in how you deal with your fears and anxieties. Do not try to tackle everything all at once. When facing a current or upcoming task that overwhelms you with a lot of anxiety, break the task into a series of smaller steps. Completing these smaller tasks one at a time will make the stress more manageable and increases your chances of success.
Take advantage of the help that is available around you. If possible, talk to a professional who can help you manage your fears and anxieties. They will be able to provide you with additional advice and insights on how to deal with your current problem.  By talking to a professional, a person will be helping themselves in the long run because they will become better able to deal with their problems in the future. Managing your fears and anxieties takes practice.  The more you practice, the better you will become.

The techniques that I have just covered are some basic ways to manage your fears and depression; however your best bet is to get some help from a professional and not to lose hope. Eventually, you will find the answers you are looking for.

BIOGRAPHY:

Stan Popovich is the author of &quot;A Layman&#39;s Guide to Managing Fear Using Psychology, Christianity and Non Resistant Methods&quot; - an easy to read book that presents a general overview of techniques that are effective in managing persistent fears and anxieties.</description>
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    <title>Jul 26, WHEN SOMEONE YOU KNOW STRUGGLES WITH FEAR, ANXIETY AND STRESS</title>
    <link>http://www.bestself-help.com/Best-Self-Help-blog.html#WHEN-SOMEONE-YOU-KNOW-STRUGGLES-WITH-FEAR,-ANXIETY-AND-STRESS</link>
    <description>What do you do when someone you know has to deal with persistent fears, anxieties, or even depression? Well the first thing you need to do is to get the person to seek the services of a professional who can lead them in the right direction and give them the help they need. In addition, here are some other techniques you can use to help the person cope.

Learn as much as you can in managing anxiety and depression. There are many books and information that will educate you on how to deal with fear and anxiety. Share this information with the person who is struggling. Education is the key in finding the answers your looking for in managing your fears. 

Be understanding and patient with the person struggling with their fears. Dealing with depression and anxiety can be difficult for the person so do not add more problems than what is already there.

In every anxiety-related situation you experience, begin to learn what works, what doesnt work, and what you need to improve on in managing your fears and anxieties. For instance, you have a lot of anxiety and you decide to take a walk to help you feel better. The next time you feel anxious you can remind yourself that you got through it the last time by taking a walk. This will give you the confidence to manage your anxiety the next time around. 
 
Challenge your negative thinking with positive statements and realistic thinking. When encountering thoughts that make your fearful or anxious, challenge those thoughts by asking yourself questions that will maintain objectivity and common sense. For example, you are afraid that if you do not get that job promotion then you will be stuck at your job forever. This depresses you, however your thinking in this situation is unrealistic. The fact of the matter is that there all are kinds of jobs available.

Another thing to remember is that things change and events do not stay the same. For instance, you may feel overwhelmed today with your anxiety and feel that this is how you will feel the rest of the week or month. This isnt correct. No one can predict the future with one hundred percent accuracy. 

When your fears and anxieties have the best of you, seek help from a professional. The key is to be patient, take it slow, and not to give up. In time, you will be able to find those resources that will help you with your problems.
 
BIOGRAPHY: 
 
Stan Popovich is the author of &quot;A Layman&#39;s Guide to Managing Fear Using Psychology, Christianity and Non Resistant Methods&quot; - an easy to read book that presents a general overview of techniques that are effective in managing persistent fears and anxieties.</description>
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    <title>Jul 11, HOW TO COPE WITH DEPRESSION</title>
    <link>http://www.bestself-help.com/Best-Self-Help-blog.html#HOW-TO-COPE-WITH-DEPRESSION</link>
    <description>Some people have a difficult time in managing their depression.  Sometimes, their depression and fears can get the best of them.  As a result, here is a short list of techniques that a person can use to help manage their depression.
 
One of the ways to manage your depression is to challenge your negative thinking with positive statements and realistic thinking. When encountering thoughts that make your fearful or depressed, challenge those thoughts by asking yourself questions that will maintain objectivity and common sense. For example, your afraid that if you do not get that job promotion then you will be stuck at your job forever. This depresses you, however your thinking in this situation is unrealistic. The fact of the matter is that there all are kinds of jobs available and just because you dont get this job promotion doesnt mean that you will never get one. In addition, people change jobs all the time, and you always have that option of going elsewhere if you are unhappy at your present location.
 
Some people get depressed and have a difficult time getting out of bed in the mornings.  When this happens, a person should take a deep breath and try to find something to do to get their mind off of the problem.   A person could take a walk, listen to some music, read the newspaper or do an activity that will give them a fresh perspective on things. Doing something will get your mind off of the problem and give you confidence to do other things.
 
Sometimes, we can get depressed over a task that we will have to perform in the near future. When this happens, visualize yourself doing the task in your mind. For instance, you and your team have to play in the championship volleyball game in front of a large group of people in the next few days. Before the big day comes, imagine yourself playing the game in your mind. Imagine that your playing in front of a large audience. By playing the game in your mind, you will be better prepared to perform for real when the time comes. Self-Visualization is a great way to reduce the fear and stress of a coming situation.
 
Take advantage of the help that is available around you. The techniques that I have just covered are some basic ways to manage your depression, however your best bet is to get some help from a professional. 
 
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Stan Popovich is the author of &lt;u&gt;A Layman&#39;s Guide to Managing Fear Using Psychology, Christianity and Non Resistant Methods&lt;/u&gt; - an easy to read book that presents a general overview of techniques that are effective in managing persistent fears and anxieties. For additional information go to: &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.managingfear.com/&quot;&gt;ManagingFear&lt;/a&gt;</description>
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    <title>Jun 15, MANAGING YOUR PERSISTENT FEARS, DEPRESSION, AND ANXIETIES</title>
    <link>http://www.bestself-help.com/Best-Self-Help-blog.html#MANAGING-YOUR-PERSISTENT-FEARS,-DEPRESSION,-AND-ANXIETIES</link>
    <description>Everybody deals with anxiety and depression, however some people have a hard time in managing it. As a result, here is a brief list of techniques that a person can use to help manage their most persistent fears and every day anxieties.&lt;/p&gt; 

When facing a current or upcoming task that overwhelms you with a lot of anxiety, the first thing you can do is to divide the task into a series of smaller steps. Completing these smaller tasks one at a time will make the stress more manageable and increases your chances of success.&lt;/p&gt; 

Sometimes we get stressed out when everything happens all at once. When this happens, a person should take a deep breath and try to find something to do for a few minutes to get their mind off of the problem.  A person could get some fresh air, listen to some music, or do an activity that will give them a fresh perspective on things.&lt;/p&gt;

A person should visualize a red stop sign in their mind when they encounter a fear provoking thought. When the negative thought comes, a person should think of a red stop sign that serves as a reminder to stop focusing on that thought and to think of something else. A person can then try to think of something positive to replace the negative thought.&lt;/p&gt;

Another technique that is very helpful is to have a small notebook of positive statements that makes you feel good. Whenever you come across an affirmation that makes you feel good, write it down in a small notebook that you can carry around with you in your pocket.&lt;/p&gt;  

Whenever you feel depressed or frustrated, open up your small notebook and read those statements.   This will help to manage your negative thinking.
Learn to take it one day at a time. Instead of worrying about how you will get through the rest of the week, try to focus on today. Each day can provide us with different opportunities to learn new things and that includes learning how to deal with your problems. You never know when the answers you are looking for will come to your doorstep. We may be ninety-nine percent correct in predicting the future, but all it takes is for that one percent to make a world of difference.&lt;/p&gt; 

For the rest of the article and additional articles go to &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.managingfear.com/&quot;&gt;Managing Fear&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt; 

BIOGRAPHY: Stan Popovich is the author of &quot;A Layman&#39;s Guide to Managing Fear Using Psychology, Christianity and Non Resistant Methods&quot; - an easy to read book that presents a general overview of techniques that are effective in managing persistent fears and anxieties.</description>
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    <title>May 3, Learn the Science of Getting Rich as taught by Proctor, Canfield, and Beckwith</title>
    <link>http://www.bestself-help.com/Best-Self-Help-blog.html#Learn-the-Science-of-Getting-Rich-as-taught-by-Proctor,-Canfield,-and-Beckwith</link>
    <description>Study each chapter of the Science of Getting Rich like you have never studied it before. Let the &quot;little green book&quot; teach you as it has taught millions around the world to become rich in all areas of your life. Michael Beckwith paints the picture, Bob Proctor instructs and designs the picture, and then Jack Canfield puts it all together!! &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.thesgrprogram.com/?m=10218&quot;&gt;Download the SGR Program for only $197&lt;/a&gt;</description>
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    <title>Apr 29, Launch of the SGR Program</title>
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    <description>&lt;b&gt;SGR is back&lt;/b&gt;. The material is incredible and now it is affordable as well!! Taught by Bob Proctor, Michael Beckwith, and Jack Canfield the &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.thesgrprogram.com/?m=10218&quot;&gt;SGRprogram&lt;/a&gt; will teach, challenge, and inspire you to new heights.</description>
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    <title>Apr 19, Re-Launch of the SGR program</title>
    <link>http://www.bestself-help.com/Best-Self-Help-blog.html#Re-Launch-of-the-SGR-program</link>
    <description>I want to invite you to something really special.

&lt;a href=&quot;http://partners.thesgrprogram.com/affiliates/signup.php?m=10218&quot;&gt;SGR program affiliate signup&lt;/a&gt;

A couple of years ago, back in 2007, I made a lot of money from introducing this program to others. It&#39;s called the Science of Getting Rich. 

So boy, was I glad to see Bob Proctor and his team relaunch it!

I&#39;m signing up again because I know it will be another success. (I mean, we ARE talking about a powerful product from Bob Proctor, Jack Canfield and Rev. Michael Beckwith that is incredible)

And I want to personally invite you and introduce you to wonderful learning and earning program.

They have a great two tier affiliate plan. &lt;a href=&quot;http://partners.thesgrprogram.com/affiliates/signup.php?m=10218&quot;&gt;Affiliate Signup&lt;/a&gt;

The Launch date is April 28th, so hurry to get your head start.</description>
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    <title>Dec 21, Needed to change date to Jan 31st for $50 a day</title>
    <link>http://www.bestself-help.com/Best-Self-Help-blog.html#Needed-to-change-date-to-Jan-31st-for-$50-a-day</link>
    <description>Zero time to work on Squidoo since Thanksgiving. Here and there but nothing consistent so I am changing the date to Jan 31st. I will still be very busy but it will give me time to consistently be working on the right activities to make my Squidoo income.</description>
    <pubDate>Sun, 21 Dec 2008 03:29:58 GMT</pubDate>
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